I had to deal with a similar place. It's not as scary as many people think. And there your old relatives can really provide good care. Here it is city care. Here they describe in detail the services they provide. I think this place may well suit you
A nursing home can be comfortable and cozy, but it may seem so only to those who will not get there. The old men whom the children pass there do not think so, because they would like to be with their relatives.